Gary Joseph Gokey

Gary Joseph Gokey, age 76, of Denver, Colorado, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family, on November 5, 2026.

Gary was born on January 3, 1950, in San Francisco, California, to Joseph and Helen Gokey. He spent most of his childhood in Missoula, Montana, alongside his parents and his five sisters: Jackie, Renee, Phyllis, Tina, and Marilyn. After graduating high school, he moved to Colorado to attend mechanic school, launching a lifelong career in the automotive industry.

One of his first jobs in Denver was at Bear Valley Conoco, where he met the love of his life, Deborah. They were married on November 13, 1976, at Trinity Lutheran Church, building a wonderful life together and raising two daughters, Terri and Conni.

He love of cars extended beyond his job and into his lifelong passion for racing. He was the happiest behind the wheel or under the hood. He spent many years racing a variety of cars at Bandimere Speedway and across the country, where he earned multiple national records, and found great camaraderie in local car and vanning clubs. Deeply committed to his faith and community, he was an active, longtime member at Trinity Lutheran Church where he generously served on many committees, his favorite being cooking for the various meals.

Every winter, Gary traded his mechanic’s tools for a red suit, working as a professional Santa and spreading Christmas magic to countless families. Whether he was wearing a Santa hat or one of his signature funny t-shirts, Gary was known for his warmth, his endless jokes, and a rare gift for making everyone around him feel valued and seen.

He is survived by his beloved wife, Deborah; his daughters, Terri (Jeremy) and Conni (Gary); his eleven grandchildren, James, Oliver, Timothy, Matthias, Ezra, Jaida, Gary Jr., Athena, Daniel, Henry, and Ian.